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36 Stratagems · #23

Stratagem 23: Befriend the Distant, Attack the Near

This stratagem is about geographic priority. Neutralize or befriend distant powers so you do not fight on too many fronts, then direct concentrated effort toward the nearest danger.

By Lee · · 6 min read

📖 Definition

Stratagem 23 teaches strategic concentration: keep distant powers from joining the fight so that nearby threats can be handled first and with more focused force.

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Original Chinese

遠交近攻

The Stratagem

遠交近攻 — “Befriend the distant, attack the near.”

This is one of the clearest geopolitical principles in the Thirty-Six Stratagems. It is about sequencing conflict by distance and urgency.

Why Geography Decides Priority

Nearby enemies constrain you immediately. Distant powers threaten more slowly but can become dangerous if they form alliances against you.

So the stratagem does not say the distant are harmless. It says they should be managed first so attention and force can be concentrated where danger is close.

The Strategic Logic

  1. Reduce the risk of outer coalition
  2. Keep from fighting on too many fronts
  3. Concentrate resources on the nearest danger
  4. Expand security outward after local threats are reduced

Modern Application

  • geopolitics: reduce long-range diplomatic risk before confronting border threats
  • business: secure peripheral partners before taking on the competitor nearest your core market
  • institutions: calm outer stakeholders before dealing with the internal conflict that is already at the door

Warning

This stratagem fails if friendship with the distant becomes sentimental and causes you to ignore shifts in power. Distance changes. Priority must change with it.

Key Takeaways

  • Distance affects urgency but does not remove danger
  • Secure the outer ring so the inner threat can be faced directly
  • Strategic concentration is stronger than scattered conflict
  • Priority must change when the map changes

Next: Stratagem 24 — Borrow a Route to Attack Guo →

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Seasonal Context

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This article is part of The Way of Nature, a living system that connects ancient insight to seasonal practice.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why befriend the distant first?
Because distance makes them less urgent but still potentially dangerous if they join a coalition. Securing them buys focus where danger is immediate.
Is this strategy about betrayal?
Its core is priority, not betrayal. The logic is to avoid overextension by settling the outer ring before fighting the inner ring.

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